This looks like what I want to do. I suppose I could take this Outdoor Remote and create an interface to hit the buttons on the fob. I wanted full control over the AC power on a switch. Like breaking the "hot" line at will.
If you haven't found another solution, and you're not opposed to making a small board, you could always look at using a few discretes to sort of make your own SSR.
I'd take a look at the MOC3032M from Fairchild. You'd just need a triac and a few passives beyond that.
